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Adult only

Ok, I understand that it is rude to post this on your invites, websites etc, but why exactly? We all know some people on our guest list that even though we address it just to them, try to add their children on to the RSVP card...so why is it in bad taste to say that the reception is adult only? I've gotten invites before with that on it and I've never given it a second thought. I'm not planning on putting this on my invites, I'm just curious as to why it's such a big faux pas.
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Re: Adult only

  • The information on your invitations and/or website is for who is invited, not for who isn't invited.   It's just rude to point out who isn't invited.  If someone RSVPs for their children, just call them and politely remind them that the invitation was only for them.  
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  • It's rude to reiterate to people who is invited. It implies that they're not smart enough to figure it out themselves.  If anyone gets it wrong, they are the rude ones, and you only need to fix it on an individual basis.
  • It's considered rude to mention people who are *not* invited to the wedding.  By putting "adults only" you are tacitly mentioning people who are uninvited.

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  • Well that makes sense. I guess a majority of the people probably open the invitation and toss the envelope without ever looking at who it is addressed to.
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  • pokepoke27pokepoke27 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_adult-only?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:179616ff-37e9-4f5d-86fb-b9d87f76813ePost:15b71cfb-9c0f-4588-bba0-eb609b608d23">Re: Adult only</a>:
    [QUOTE]Ugh, I go an invitation the other day with "adults only, please.." ON the invitation, as if Mr. and Mrs. XXX XXXX on the envelope wasn't enough. <strong>I think adult only weddings are ridiculous</strong>, but that's just me. To each their own. OH, and they have a honeymoon registry as well.
    Posted by lindsaynewbride10[/QUOTE]

    <div>Why? </div><div>
    </div><div>ETA: Too slow.</div>
  • andrea2473andrea2473 member
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    edited July 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_adult-only?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:179616ff-37e9-4f5d-86fb-b9d87f76813ePost:15b71cfb-9c0f-4588-bba0-eb609b608d23">Re: Adult only</a>:
    [QUOTE]Ugh, I go an invitation the other day with "adults only, please.." ON the invitation, as if Mr. and Mrs. XXX XXXX on the envelope wasn't enough. <strong>I think adult only weddings are ridiculous, but that's just me.</strong> To each their own. OH, and they have a honeymoon registry as well.
    Posted by lindsaynewbride10[/QUOTE]

    I don't.  We tried like hell to have one, but my family pitched a fit and we relented.    Looking back, hardly anyone danced because the kids were all over the dance floor.   As were their parents who were just standing there taking pictures of their adorable little precious angels.  I love my cousin's kids and the like, but that's exactly why I didn't want kids.    Some parties are just more fun with adults only. 
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  • aragx6aragx6 member
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    edited July 2012
    Yeah we're inviting kids because it would be unheard of in his family not to, but if none of them come I surely won't be heartbroken.

    I feel like as a kid I'd have been bored after only a couple of hours -- my mom rarely took us to weddings as kids.
    Lizzie
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Adult only : I don't.  We tried like hell to have one, but my family pitched a fit and we relented.    Looking back, hardly anyone danced because the kids were all over the dance floor.   As were their parents who were just standing there taking pictures of their adorable little precious angels.  I love my cousin's kids and the like, but that's exactly why I didn't want kids.    Some parties are just more fun with adults only. 
    Posted by andrea2473[/QUOTE]

    The dance floor thing definitely.And I love all my family members but some of them are little terrors and I'm not gonna have them running around like crazy people at my wedding reception. For example, my cousin brought her son to our engagement party (which was at bar) and she let him run around all night and he crawled under and table and bit some random guy and drew blood and then when they were finally leaving he pitched a fit and ran into a waitress and knocked an entire tray of drinks onto the ground and all over her. I don't need that kind of drama at the reception.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Adult only : I don't.  We tried like hell to have one, but my family pitched a fit and we relented.    Looking back, <strong>hardly anyone danced because the kids were all over the dance floor. </strong>  As were their parents who were just standing there taking pictures of their adorable little precious angels.  I love my cousin's kids and the like, but that's exactly why I didn't want kids.    Some parties are just more fun with adults only. 
    Posted by andrea2473[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>That's never stopped me or  any one I know from dancing. The kids moved.</div>
  • aragx6aragx6 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_adult-only?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:179616ff-37e9-4f5d-86fb-b9d87f76813ePost:5f7d8bf1-90a7-49f1-b462-c7d630d083a6">Re: Adult only</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Adult only : The dance floor thing definitely.And I love all my family members but some of them are little terrors and I'm not gonna have them running around like crazy people at my wedding reception. For example, my cousin brought her son to our engagement party (which was at bar) and she let him run around all night and he crawled under and table and bit some random guy and drew blood and then when they were finally leaving he pitched a fit and ran into a waitress and knocked an entire tray of drinks onto the ground and all over her. I don't need that kind of drama at the reception.
    Posted by shanding4787[/QUOTE]

    Jeez, I generally think kids and their misbehavior is overstated, but that kid is a flucking nightmare.
    Lizzie
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Adult only : Jeez, I generally think kids and their misbehavior is overstated, but that kid is a flucking nightmare.
    Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]

    Oh and he's not the only one. Family holidays are always interesting. I can just see me getting cake/soda/something on me the moment I get there if we have kids there.
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  • aragx6aragx6 member
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    You know I should have said those parents are flucking nightmares -- there's obviously some issues at play. If my (hypothetical as-of-yet nonexistent) child bit someone, we'd have gone home long before he could have knocked into a server.
    Lizzie
  • andrea2473andrea2473 member
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    edited July 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_adult-only?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:179616ff-37e9-4f5d-86fb-b9d87f76813ePost:3b21593d-d41c-40a7-b6ba-31b70e4f544e">Re: Adult only</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Adult only : That's never stopped me or  any one I know from dancing. The kids moved.
    Posted by Lizzieyounce[/QUOTE]

    The dance area wasn't that big.  So if you take 7-10 kids screaming and running around + just as many adults just standing there playing photographer, it wasn't very easy to get people over there.   We tried and would get a little bit started and the kids would just run between us.  I think everyone who wanted to dance a little just decided it was more annoying than fun.   I mean, that's why I stopped trying to dance and it was my own wedding.   
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_adult-only?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:179616ff-37e9-4f5d-86fb-b9d87f76813ePost:b5a57690-f2d7-4404-b524-666797c4eafb">Re: Adult only</a>:
    [QUOTE]You know I should have said those parents are flucking nightmares -- there's obviously some issues at play. If my (hypothetical as-of-yet nonexistent) child bit someone, we'd have gone home long before he could have knocked into a server.
    Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]

    Yea you'd think that would have been the case. She just put him in "time out" and left the room so he stayed there for all of about 30 seconds.
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  • aragx6aragx6 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_adult-only?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:179616ff-37e9-4f5d-86fb-b9d87f76813ePost:2d4df535-1538-4e36-8af0-4c5c5e40589a">Re: Adult only</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Adult only : Yea you'd think that would have been the case. She just put him in "time out" and left the room so he stayed there for all of about 30 seconds.
    Posted by shanding4787[/QUOTE]

    That makes me ragey. He'll end up some awful teenager and his parents will finally try to give him some rules and boundaries and it will be far too late. It's not about your comfort at your E-party or even about the guy that got bit -- they're damaging their kid for the long haul and that sucks.
    Lizzie
  • Putting "Adults Only" on an invitation is like walking up to a group of 5 people and handing invites to 4 of them, and then also handing the 5th person a rejection letter telling them they aren't invited.  They probably figured out they weren't invited by not getting an invitation in the first place, but reminding them they aren't invited is like rubbing salt in the wound.  It's an unnecessary additional step that only exists to point out the obvious.
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    [QUOTE]Well that makes sense. I guess a majority of the people probably open the invitation and toss the envelope without ever looking at who it is addressed to.
    Posted by shanding4787[/QUOTE]
    If they aren't looking at who the invitation is mailed to, they probably won't care that it says "Adults Only," either.
    Brides have definitely come on here saying that they put Adults Only and people still RSVP'd for their kids.
    So, really, "Adults Only" is rude AND it's unnecessary because it rarely works, anyway.
    It's perfectly fine to not invite kids to a wedding, no matter what your reason is, but it's just not fine to put it in print. Like, "nany nany poo poo you're not invited!"

    I'm totally fine with kids at weddings, unless the kids are onbnoxious. Then, I hate kids at weddings.
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  • Adult Only is rude because it gives guests the false hope that you are going to have an X rated wedding reception.
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  • aragx6aragx6 member
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    That made me giggle.
    Lizzie
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    [QUOTE]<strong>It is rude to treat people as if they don't understand basic etiquette or lack common sense.  </strong>This includes dictating things like "no jeans" and putting "adults only" on the reception.  You shouldn't communicate with all of our your guests based on the lowest common denominator.  Plus, people who wear jeans to weddings will wear them anyway and people who RSVP for their uninvited little angels will do it anyway too.
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    <div>Absolutely true. Even though a lot of people don't understand basic etiquette or have a lick of common sense, you as the host treat them as if they actually do. It's just the way it is. So you rise above it and make all the requisite phone calls to straighten out the guest list and turn a blind eye to the people who show up dressed inappropriately. It's part of being a good host. </div>
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  • Actually etiquette dictates that you DO mention that it is adults only on the invitation. You DO NOT say "no children" as that is negative and rude.

    From Linda Kevich's website. She has been a wedding coordinator of over two decades and teached courses for up and coming planners:

    "If you are thinking about the option of an Adults Only wedding reception, its critically important that you consider the matter carefully and realize that some may indeed find this to be a tad offensive, ungracious, or downright cold. Weddings are not typically adult only events - in fact, throughout history, children have played an important role in the symbolism associated with weddings - and therefore some might be offended that you are dictating that they must leave their little ones at home.

    Ultimately however, your wedding day is YOUR day and the bottom line is that you have a right to be happy and have it your way on this one day out of your entire life. If, after carefully considering this, you decide that this is the way it is going to be, you should follow the following rules for this delicate situation:

    Indicate that the reception is to be adults only by having the words "Adults Only Reception" or "Adult Reception" printed along with the reception location and time on the invitation.

    • Do not use phrases such as NO KIDS, NO CHILDREN, etc. The only correct wording is Adult Reception or Adults Only Reception.

    • This information should be printed by the printer on all invitations. You must never write ANYTHING by hand onto the invitation itself - whether it pertains to this or any other matter. Doing so is considered socially incorrect (in other words, tacky!) and inappropriate.

    • If you are excluding some children, the rule is that you must exclude all children. There must not be different rules for different people or some individuals will be deeply offended and hurt - and rightly so. The only possible exception to this would be any children who are in the wedding party. However, the jury is out in this area. While some etiquette experts feel that it may be alright to make this exception, there is a stronger belief that if the reception is to be adults only, no children should be included as part of the wedding party. Otherwise, parents of children who were not allowed to attend may feel slighted that clearly some exceptions are being made to allow children, while they were instructed to leave their kids behind."

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_adult-only?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:179616ff-37e9-4f5d-86fb-b9d87f76813ePost:b526ddf2-45f0-47c1-b18d-0446690e1e2a">Re: Adult only</a>:
    [QUOTE]Actually etiquette dictates that you DO mention that it is adults only on the invitation. You DO NOT say "no children" as that is negative and rude. From Linda Kevich's website. She has been a wedding coordinator of over two decades and teached courses for up and coming planners: "If you are thinking about the option of an Adults Only wedding reception, its critically important that you consider the matter carefully and realize that some may indeed find this to be a tad offensive, ungracious, or downright cold. Weddings are not typically adult only events - in fact, throughout history, children have played an important role in the symbolism associated with weddings - and therefore some might be offended that you are dictating that they must leave their little ones at home. Ultimately however, your wedding day is YOUR day and the bottom line is that you have a right to be happy and have it your way on this one day out of your entire life. If, after carefully considering this, you decide that this is the way it is going to be, you should follow the following rules for this delicate situation: Indicate that the reception is to be adults only by having the words "Adults Only Reception" or "Adult Reception" printed along with the reception location and time on the invitation. Do not use phrases such as NO KIDS, NO CHILDREN, etc. The only correct wording is Adult Reception or Adults Only Reception. This information should be printed by the printer on all invitations. <strong>You must never write ANYTHING by hand onto the invitation itself - whether it pertains to this or any other matter. Doing so is considered socially incorrect (in other words, tacky!) and inappropriate.</strong> If you are excluding some children, the rule is that you must exclude all children. There must not be different rules for different people or some individuals will be deeply offended and hurt - and rightly so. The only possible exception to this would be any children who are in the wedding party. However, the jury is out in this area. While some etiquette experts feel that it may be alright to make this exception, there is a stronger belief that if the reception is to be adults only, no children should be included as part of the wedding party. Otherwise, parents of children who were not allowed to attend may feel slighted that clearly some exceptions are being made to allow children, while they were instructed to leave their kids behind."
    Posted by FormerlyAK[/QUOTE]
    What did people do before printed invitations? And, not for nothing, but some people do still handwrite their invitations. This is very confusing.
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    [QUOTE]Actually etiquette dictates that you DO mention that it is adults only on the invitation. You DO NOT say "no children" as that is negative and rude. From Linda Kevich's website. She has been a wedding coordinator of over two decades and teached courses for up and coming planners: "If you are thinking about the option of an Adults Only wedding reception, its critically important that you consider the matter carefully and realize that some may indeed find this to be a tad offensive, ungracious, or downright cold. Weddings are not typically adult only events - in fact, throughout history, children have played an important role in the symbolism associated with weddings - and therefore some might be offended that you are dictating that they must leave their little ones at home. Ultimately however, your wedding day is YOUR day and the bottom line is that you have a right to be happy and have it your way on this one day out of your entire life. If, after carefully considering this, you decide that this is the way it is going to be, you should follow the following rules for this delicate situation: Indicate that the reception is to be adults only by having the words "Adults Only Reception" or "Adult Reception" printed along with the reception location and time on the invitation. Do not use phrases such as NO KIDS, NO CHILDREN, etc. The only correct wording is Adult Reception or Adults Only Reception. This information should be printed by the printer on all invitations. You must never write ANYTHING by hand onto the invitation itself - whether it pertains to this or any other matter. Doing so is considered socially incorrect (in other words, tacky!) and inappropriate. If you are excluding some children, the rule is that you must exclude all children. There must not be different rules for different people or some individuals will be deeply offended and hurt - and rightly so. The only possible exception to this would be any children who are in the wedding party. However, the jury is out in this area. While some etiquette experts feel that it may be alright to make this exception, there is a stronger belief that if the reception is to be adults only, no children should be included as part of the wedding party. Otherwise, parents of children who were not allowed to attend may feel slighted that clearly some exceptions are being made to allow children, while they were instructed to leave their kids behind."
    Posted by FormerlyAK[/QUOTE]

    This is completely incorrect advice.  Linda might be a pro but she's flat out wrong.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Adult only : <strong>This is completely incorrect advice.  Linda might be a pro but she's flat out wrong.</strong>
    Posted by banana468[/QUOTE]

    <div>I concur. And this Linday is awfully long-winded.</div>
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  • crash2729crash2729 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_adult-only?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:179616ff-37e9-4f5d-86fb-b9d87f76813ePost:b526ddf2-45f0-47c1-b18d-0446690e1e2a">Re: Adult only</a>:
    [QUOTE]Actually etiquette dictates that you DO mention that it is adults only on the invitation. You DO NOT say "no children" as that is negative and rude. From Linda Kevich's website. She has been a wedding coordinator of over two decades and teached courses for up and coming planners: "If you are thinking about the option of an Adults Only wedding reception, its critically important that you consider the matter carefully and realize that some may indeed find this to be a tad offensive, ungracious, or downright cold. Weddings are not typically adult only events - in fact, throughout history, children have played an important role in the symbolism associated with weddings - and therefore some might be offended that you are dictating that they must leave their little ones at home. <strong>Ultimately however, your wedding day is YOUR day and the bottom line is that you have a right to be happy and have it your way on this one day out of your entire life. </strong>If, after carefully considering this, you decide that this is the way it is going to be, you should follow the following rules for this delicate situation: Indicate that the reception is to be adults only by having the words "Adults Only Reception" or "Adult Reception" printed along with the reception location and time on the invitation. Do not use phrases such as NO KIDS, NO CHILDREN, etc. The only correct wording is Adult Reception or Adults Only Reception. This information should be printed by the printer on all invitations. You must never write ANYTHING by hand onto the invitation itself - whether it pertains to this or any other matter. Doing so is considered socially incorrect (in other words, tacky!) and inappropriate. If you are excluding some children, the rule is that you must exclude all children. There must not be different rules for different people or some individuals will be deeply offended and hurt - and rightly so. The only possible exception to this would be any children who are in the wedding party. However, the jury is out in this area. While some etiquette experts feel that it may be alright to make this exception, there is a stronger belief that if the reception is to be adults only, no children should be included as part of the wedding party. Otherwise, parents of children who were not allowed to attend may feel slighted that clearly some exceptions are being made to allow children, while they were instructed to leave their kids behind."
    Posted by FormerlyAK[/QUOTE]
    Of course a wedding coordinator would say that. <div>She cares if her brides are happy and not chewing her butt, not about whether they follow etiquette.</div>
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  • Honestly, I think people get way too concerned with these things. In the grand scheme of things, no one cares if you put "Adults Only" on an invitation. I remember planning my first wedding when I was in my mid-20s and worrying about dotting every i and crossing every t. Now that I am older, and divorced, I realize that none of that mattered. People put so much emphasis on planning the perfect wedding and it's just one day. I am now planning my second wedding, and am much less stressed about it because we are having the wedding we want and doing it the way we feel is best. We are **gasp** inviting some children and not others. The people with children who are not being invited, I talked to them personally and they understand and are totally fine with it.

  • Wedding professional =/= etiquette expert. In fact, many times professionals will explicitly give incorrect or rude advice if it means they'll make more money or give the bride and groom who are paying them "warm and fuzzy feelings" about being making a rude choice. 
  • FormerlyAKFormerlyAK member
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    edited July 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_adult-only?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:179616ff-37e9-4f5d-86fb-b9d87f76813ePost:5201df65-8420-402a-9fdb-1524d5d3ce39">Re: Adult only</a>:
    [QUOTE]FormerlyAK, see how everyone's reacting here?  A mixed bag of opinions.  Advising someone that it's ok to put "adults only" on an invite will risk offending someone.  Doesn't really matter that you're ok with it. Some people might be ok with it, but other's wont.  We try and help brides avoid offending people.
    Posted by 1covejack[/QUOTE]

    But no matter what you do, and no matter how hard you try, SOMEONE will be offended. That is part of my point. You could not put "adults only" and send the invite, addressed the prim and proper way with just the adults' names on it and get a response with the whole family coming. Then, yes, you call an explain the invite was just for the adults and those people still get pissed because they feel their child should be there. I had this with my ex's family because in his culture it was proper etiquette to address an invite to the adults and for them to then decide if their children would be able to attend.
  • If people will RSVP for all their kids and relatives when the invitation is explicitly addressed just to the two adults, they probably won't care/will disregard "Adults only" as well. Meanwhile, the people that would not be rude to invite those who aren't addressed on the invitation might be offended that you put it. It's not worth doing it when you know there's a good chance some people will be offended. And a wedding planner/coordinator is not an etiquette expert and may purposely give incorrect etiquette advice because they are in this for money--it is their business. They don't care if you end up offending your Aunt Sally by what you put on an invitation. YOU end up looking bad, not the wedding planner that told you to do that.


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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Adult only : That's never stopped me or  any one I know from dancing. The kids moved.
    Posted by Lizzieyounce[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Duhhh I agree.  I personally think children add a lot to a wedding and I've never personally found children to be badly behaved at a wedding.  In fact, they are usually in awe the whole time.  Maybe I've just been fortunate to be around well behaved children.  We are having children at our wedding because they are my family, just like the adults.  I also think they're stinkin cute.

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