I am getting married in July and now that the new year has begun, I need to start thinking about all the small details. Neither of us know anyone who can sing nor do we know anyone who can play at our wedding. What do we do? Will the church give us a list of people to choose from or can we pick the music director from the church? If we do pick someone from the church who we don't know, do we send them an invitation and do they get invited to the rehearsal dinner?