i trust your opinion ladies, and my only real wedding problem seems to be this...
So I've been asking some girls to be in my bridal party little by little because, frankly, we have time. HOWEVER...
I've been friends with this girl since high school through a mutual friendship. She's always been a little on the grandiose side, but at the time it was fine because what teenager isn't? Well, now she's 23 with a child and she's still acting the same way.
She's overprotective of her child and will do/say almost anything to get sympathy. All her facebook posts are pretty much negative. She starts drama over anything/everything. Just to rabblerouse. I recall one occasion when we were 19 and she said loudly in front of a guy I just started dating, "Hey remember when you used to cut?" She really hasn't changed. I have a friend who is Muslim who will be at the wedding and since 9/11 she's highly prejudiced against them (ridiculous right?). I know she's going to say something to her to start trouble. She even started fighting with her mom and being dramatic at a wedding recently.
I know what you guys are going to say: that I should probably not even invite her. After all, she can't even behave at a wedding as of recent.
Two problems:
1. If you're not her friend, you're her enemy.
2. She has been there for me in bad situations (although it might have been a "misery loves company" kind of thing)
I'm really at a loss about what to do. I asked our mutual friend to be a bridesmaid and discussed this with her and we don't have a clue. I'd like to involve her somehow, but if she's not a bridesmaid, she's going to throw a fit and just generally be REALLY nasty.
Help!
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