Ok I vented about this on Wednesday mornings post I think, but its still on my mind so Im going to do it again. Sorry to be repetitive...but if you havent read it then it wont be
OK, My oldest friend, 24-ish years, she is also making my shower cake, wedding cake and diong a reading during the wedding. OH AND Her Dad is marrying us. (parents have known each other for ever, I grew up across the street from them, and he is a part time preacher)
So last weekend my friend emailed me voicing her concerns that FI and I are not living according to God. (meaning we're living in sin) and that she is concerned about the consequences that we will have to suffer because we did not wait for the gifts of sex and marriage. she went onand on and on about how she waited and it was the best decision for her, and she understands its hard but she now knows why she had to wait so she could fully appreciate those gifts. She also mentioned the problems we have had with FMIL about this (she begged him to marry me at the JP the night before he moved in almost a year ago and told us we were going to hell) and I almost feel like she thinks that stress we had from that situation was a punishment for our choosing this lifestyle.
sigh...Im worried that her dad is having her come to me with this and may be reconsidering marrying us, which I wish he would just tell us if that were the case.
My parents think that he had her email me because i would be less offended it coming from her, and that he didnt want to embarress me.
Well my best friend is overseas in the military and I emailed her telling her about it, and she told me "just go to the JP and get married, make everyone happy and just ghave your wedding later" ummm NO! We dont have a cloudy conscience about it! Why does everyone think it is our job to make THEM happy? FMIL is just embarressed to tell her friends that #1 her marriege ENDED because she is a psycho (whole other rant for another time) and #2 her oldest son is "living in sin"
now my oldest friend and the man who is supposed to marry us is on us about it and my BEST FRIEND thinks I need to just go get a marriage liscense and do it already.
WTF is wrong with people?
Ok i think thats all...