Ok so I'm the soon-to-be Bride and well I have a dilemma. I'm having a hard time with my mother. She doesn't seem to want to help me out with this wedding what so ever. For Example: I tell her that I have been thinking about what she said about renting a dress but I'm not going to rent. I'm not even going to David's Bridal. Then all of a sudden she starts laughing and says davids bridal. And I'm like sometimes they have good deals on the website and she starts laughing again. I haven't even said everything and she still walks away from me.
Shes not like everyone elses mom who will help you out or is all lovey. In fact I know she hates lovey stuff, but even if she does why wont she help me? My MOH is 2-3 countys away (almost 1 hr) and She and I can't afford to go back and forth. I was recently layed off, but thats a whole different dilemma. Yes I have no money right now but we can look online and say oh thats a good idea or thats cute. Oh and My fiance and I are paying for the wedding ourselves. My fiance is in the Navy so he will be getting his bonus and we can use some of that money towards the wedding. Its defentally a DIY wedding and My moms creative but she doesn't seem like she wants to help at all. It honestly makes me really sad, because this is a moment in a girls like that she gets to spend with her Mother and mine doesn't want to participate in it.
P.S. She has talked about it but every blue moon and I don't mean once a month. Less then that. She tells us to elope or rent a dress online, or she will pay a little bit for the honey moon. I told her once that I as Thinking of 3 Bridesmaids and she flips out saying thats a HUGE wedding. O.o IDK anymore.
I'm not trying to rant so don't get me wrong, but she is so hard to figure out.