~Confession Thursday~

bethie122 · July 2010

Confession time, ladies!

Confession: FI and I decided we would wait around 2 years after we get married to have babies.. but we both have baby fever BAD right now. I know waiting 2 years is a more logical decision, because FI is getting ready to graduate school (August 10th, Woot!), and it'll give him more time to get settled into a better job, but we want one sooner. I know we'll most likely end up waiting.. Stupid baby fever.

mishy112 · July 2010

Ugh, I suffer my own bouts of baby fever, so I hear ya!

I confess that we went to a cake tasting for our AHR last night and I said something horrible to Matthew in front of the couple (a woman & her s/o that make cakes on the side). Normally, we joke around at home and say similar kinds of things all in fun, but I really hurt his feelings saying it in front of other people. Everyone just sat there in silence after I said it, and I felt so bad. I never would have said it if I realized, and I felt like such a jerk. I apologized then and again on the way home, and he has forgiven me, but I still feel bad.

DiamondDani · July 2010

I have bouts of baby fever....but I think FI has it worse! My mom really wants a grandbaby and keeps trying to have us start trying NOW, haha. She really wants to know when we are going to start trying, and we always joke around and tell her 5 years...in reality we are thinking about trying June 2011 but we aren't telling anyone that just yet.

I confess that one reason I don't want to have a baby right now is because I worked really hard to lose 45 pounds and I'm not ready to get fat again. It's a horrible reason, I know.

aukelly · July 2010

Guess it's baby related today bc I have the fever too. Since FI and I are both 30ish....I told him we are going to start trying on the honeymoon. But I am super scared of getting fat when I get pregnant and more scared of not being able to lose it.

beckerz03 · July 2010

Oh FI and I both have baby fever bad. You girls are so much better than us...we want to start 6 months after getting married. It probably won't actually happen that way, but yah...it's bad over here.

My Confession: had my first nightmare...it was actually engagement pictures. I was rushing around trying to get ready to leave town and I completely forgot my nail appt until I broke a nail and I started freaking out. Woke me up out of a dead sleep. Not even close to being funny, and it's only engagement pictures...I can't even begin to imagine how bad it will be when it gets closer for me.

akhunter1 · July 2010

One of my best friends had a baby yesterday!! I can't wait to have kids but we are going to wait a while. There is traveling I would love to do and just be more financially stable.

I confess that I am a happy FI works late so I can have the house to myself for once to focus on wedding stuff.

gabi829 · July 2010

I confess I had a dream last night that I was a vampire and was dating Edward Cullen. And it was good except I would have preferred Vampire Eric from True Blood.

DiamondDani · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.weddings.com/Sites/Weddings/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-theme-boards_destination-weddings_confession-thursday-11?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Theme BoardsForum:54Discussion:cecb8e27-08ec-4da4-a4e7-1526813c88b8Post:db229986-f842-4432-a522-72b7d5f74e73">Re: ~Confession Thursday~</a>:
[QUOTE]I confess I had a dream last night that I was a vampire and was dating Edward Cullen. And it was good except I would have preferred Vampire Eric from True Blood.
Posted by gabi829[/QUOTE]

I <3 True Blood!!!

Spazdoodles · July 2010

OMG I have baby fever baaaaad! And like Danielle, my Mom isn't helping. She told me that when she was shopping on Saturday she almost bought the cutest little pair of pink baby Uggs. I said "For who?" lol. She said "I was going to save them.. for one day.. hopefully soon.." Oh boy. Although yesterday I went to visit my BFF who had twins 6 weeks ago and that cured my baby fever for a little while

Within the first minute of being there I picked up one of the girls and she immeadiately threw up in my hair lol.

ETA my Confession: I had a really inappropriate dream last night about a smokin' hot guy I used to work with (years ago, before I met FI) We both really liked each other at the time but I was seeing his friend so nothing ever happened between us. Now I'm living vicariously through my dreams I guess

ToBeMrs.O2011 · July 2010

Well my confession is that FI and I don't have baby fever and we seriously feel like we may never have it and never have children. It's really weird to think that we may buck all social norms and choose a lifestyle that neither of us ever really considered before now. The good thing is that we've obviously talked at length about ths and agree that anything can happen and one of us (or both of us) could get crazy baby fever at some point and we'd revisit at that point. My biggest fear is that we regret it when its too late. But either way, this is a HUGE decision that we are not taking lightly.

Mistym05 · July 2010

HAHA! I have Baby Fever so bad, and although we are married and it would be ok for us to have kids I'm kind of selfish and want time to "just be married" and travel. Do all the things that a kid may hold us back from doing right away. I am not ready to give up my freedom I have to do what I want whenever I want.

My Confession: I HATE looking at houses..... I want to get out of this apartment like nobody's business, but going through houses with our realtor is NO fun! I find everything wrong with it, and nothing I like even if it's a nice house! I am dragging my feet this whole process and it is making it 10 times worse on Colin! I just wish someone would find me a nice house and I wouldn't have to move into it until it is all painted and decorated!

gabi829 · July 2010

I confess I change my mind about babies every day. I think they're adorable and I would love to teach them all kinds of things. On the flip side, none of our friends want to have them, and I don't want any more people to have to clean up after.

Meghangh · July 2010

I confess that we move in to weeks and I have not packone one thing. I cleaned one room so far, and still have plenty of organizing and going through stuff to do! I HATE packing so much!

And, I am happy to say that I do not have baby fever right now. I am content with waiting for a few years to have a baby and as we are settled down!

nubiannqween · July 2010

In Response to <a href="http://destination.weddings.com/Sites/weddings/Pages/main.aspx/wedding-theme-boards_destination-weddings_confession-thursday-11?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Theme BoardsForum:54Discussion:cecb8e27-08ec-4da4-a4e7-1526813c88b8Post:6d42619f-5bcb-4dd5-9410-52ab568cd353">Re: ~Confession Thursday~</a>:
[QUOTE] But I am super scared of getting fat when I get pregnant and more scared of not being able to lose it.
Posted by aukelly[/QUOTE]

OMG, me too! I feel exactly that way! Because of this, I'm actually on the fence about having a child. I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels like that!

I confess that I'm really feeling drained, crabby and a little down one minute and excited for the wedding the next! I think these mood swings are happening because of all these things that we have on our plate. Between the wedding, trying to buy this house and us just finding out that the deal may fall through...realizing that if the house falls through after the wedding we will have to live with my mother until we get our house situation figured out, top it off with a pretty stressful job! It's just all too much sometimes!

numb3rMel · July 2010

WOW! This is baby central. To that topic, FI has baby fever but luckily with his new job has laid off of me about it. I'm like some other girls. I feel bad but I don't want to lose my body or my ability to do whatever whenever. The topic of babies really gives me heartburn. The closer it gets to us being "ok" to start trying, the more butterflies I get. My BM is 3 months into it and being pregnant sounds miserable! Not to mention I love all my friends kids but I'm not convinced I'm up for that just yet.

Confession Thursday - I confess that I'm SUPER busy at work yet I can't stop reading all the posts! and commenting... bad... bad little worker bee I am!

hibiscus118 · July 2010

Oh I've got the baby fever too, and I don't know why considering nothing about being pregnant sounds fun to me. I always said I was not having one until I was 30, but thats 4 1/2 years away and I don't think we'll wait that long. Our parents are ready for grandbabies to. I would like to go to Alaska in summer 2012 so I'm thinking after then we might start trying, but who knows really

I confess that I'm secretly excited that FI is going away next weekend. Every year he goes to York, PA for a jeep show and I've never gone simply because its in a hot, sunny field and I know I'd be miserable. He usually just goes for the day but this year hes going for 2 nights. House all to myself and gonna try to get together with some friends!

beachybride12 · July 2010

I would probably have baby fever if we didn't already have a 2 year old daughter! FI and I are doing everything a little backwards...whoops!

However, I do miss being pregnant and the teeny tiny baby stage, so our next will come some time AFTER we get married!

So my first true confession...since I found this board, I have not done a single work related thing while at work. Luckily my boss is on vacay, so I'm feeling not so guilty about not doing anything

Beth0413 · July 2010

Wow! Lots of ladies w/ baby fever! I love kids but I don't think I'm ready just quite yet. We're both 29 though so I don't want to wait too long after we're married to start trying.

My confession is that I have wedding on the brain 24/7 lately! I just keep thinking about what I want & my brain just won't stop! Haha. I have really been slacking at work, eek! Theknot just keeps pulling me in .. I don't want to miss any posts, ahhh!

Carolito · July 2010

My confession will sound very "old mentality" to a lot of you, but here it goes:

I confess that I have a bad case of baby fever, and FI even more so, to the point that we go out to stores and stare at baby things. It doesn't help that mine will be the first grandchild of my house, and the first one of his in 16 years. BUT, I also confess that I have had terrible nightmares about getting pregnant BEFORE the wedding. You have to understand that I live in DR, a place where 99.9% of children live with their parents until they get married, and where getting pregnant out of wedlock is still a taboo (although it happens every single day arround everyone). And, I do have a couple of jealous ants and cousins that will just loooove for me to "screw up". Plus, If I get pregnan now, I will be a COW by the time of the wedding.

Having a baby will be a blessing, but I just really want it to come AFTER I have that band on my hand.

troublejessy · July 2010

I confess.... that I cannot stop shopping! I'm usually SO good with money, keep myself on a tight budget, and knowing what I can/can't afford. In fact, I rarely splurge or even go shopping at all. I think the stress of the week has caused me to go into retail therapy mode! There are so many sales! Someone please stop me! lol

PS. I also confess that yesterday I said I was going to be away from the board for the next two weeks.... but less than 24 hours I'm back. I guess thats okay as long as I'm not worrying about planning

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