So one of my BM is a dear friend but isn't always up on the girly things like dresses nor is she the most organized/punctual. Of my 5 BM she is the only one outstanding who hasn't gotten measured for and ordered the dress yet. I know she's not super into wedding stuff - and I try to avoid too mcuh wedding convo with her - but I also suspect it is because she has put on a few pounds and has been hoping to lose them first which she mentioned to me when we went to look at BM dresses. However, its been a few months since she said that and I haven't seen a change. My thought is that she should just order the dress as she is now and it can always be taken in. But I'm not sure how to nudge her to get measured and place the order as weight can be a sensitive issue... I also don't want her to order too small of a size expecting she'll fit and then not...
Touchy subject, I know, but I want to stay organized and get the order placed soon. Any thoughts on how to approach this???