So my MOH called me today to ask me if I care to go to Miami for my bachelorette and not my whole BP go. Basically I have always wanted to go to miami for my bachelorette. One of my BMs is married and said told my MOH that if we went that she would not go because she feel that it is a single thing. Mind you all of my friends are pretty safe/square. We don't party hard or get drunk so I don't know if she thinks it will be the female version of hangover or what, but now I don't want to be selfish. Shoud I care? I have really been wanting to go to miami. Because she is the only BM that lives near me we do stuff together, like spa days. Am I over thinking this? Dependingon when my other to BMs come up we may all be able to get manis and pedis together before the wedding, will that be enough? TIA