So my fiance is wanting to go into the police force after graduating in two weeks with his degree in criminal justice. I have a really good family friend who is kind of like an uncle to me that works in the local police department. I asked this family friend if he could atleast see about maybe helping my fiance get into atleast test. Well, my fiance is freaking out with graduation and has developed "ankle pain" so he missed the PT test yesterday. Turns out that my family friend had gotten him the job as long as he had shown up to the test but we didn't know that until tonight. I'm really upset because my fiance doesn't have any back up plans and is now peeved because i'm really peeved. I love my fiance but this is really fustrating me. I have planned on taking extra summer school classes and putting my self in debt for more school loans so I can finish faster so we can get married but it seems like he has no respect for this. I just don't know what to do.