So, I got a wedding invite from my cousin's fiance. The invite was for the reception only. When I went to their website, they had the details listed for the ceremony and stated that they wanted an intimate, "family-only" ceremony. I feel offended because he's one of my only cousins, and doesn't being his cousin qualify me as "family"???? I actually cannot attend the wedding, due to the fact that I live in another state and I start school a few days after the wedding. So I'm not terribly offended that I wasn't invited because I can't attend. I just feel that if you want a totally "private" ceremony, don't post the ceremony details online where people who WEREN'T invited can see.