is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests?

betrothed123 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_rude-enclose-rules-of-event-sheet-guests?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:4955ee4c-6203-4264-bc60-8c194adea880Post:4e46a3c1-80d9-4a02-a33e-62b55db27309">Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests? : I see it right there.
Posted by sophistryliz[/QUOTE]
So tell me, do you think that says "Annoyed" or "annoying"? Because it still doesn't say either one of those words.

Keep trying, though. It's fun to watch you make yourself into a fool repeatedly.

Mrs.B6302007 · March 2010

but it's still not the definition. It's explaining the etymology as in where the word came from

sophistryliz · March 2010

I can only imagine what kind of lives you ladies live...

sucrets4 · March 2010

Well, I bet no one here can tell me what a plagal cadence is.

Wait...we're not trying to show off how smart we are?

Mrs.B6302007 · March 2010

Cadence - isn't that a misspelling of Candace? I could have sworn I saw it as a baby name on the bump somewhere...

kikibaby · March 2010

No, you really can't imagine my life. I yell at dead cats on the highway and fight military robots all day. It's CRAZY and you just. wouldn't. understand.

Mrs.B6302007 · March 2010

Yep, Kiki's CRAZY for real. We can only let her out for short periods of time.

betrothed123 · March 2010

I'm a super hero. My life is very similar to that of Wonderwoman. If you want to imagine it, open a comic book. I pulled a bunch of people from a burning building this morning, saving dozens of lives. When's the last time you saved a life?

MeaghanandMichael · March 2010

I just like to hang out here for the boobs.

[Deleted User] · March 2010

My life is awesome. Just ask my best friends, Blanche, Rose, Dorothy and Sophia. They are some crazy gals. We tear up the Miami scene together on the regular. Don't hate.

J_Mae84 · March 2010

As a serious response to your question, I don't find it rude as I'm stuck in a similar predicament. It's not that I'm worried about it, but that the Country Club where our reception is does not allow jeans, period. So I'm also stuck in how to include that in our invitations without sounding rude. It's a very fine line and I wish you the best of luck!

kikibaby · March 2010

Cew, as Brie would say:

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · March 2010

Why would you make an SN on an internet message board if you assumed the posters wouldn't understand the meaning?

Oh wait, I'm trying to apply logic to this situation. *slaps hand*

Mrs.B6302007 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_rude-enclose-rules-of-event-sheet-guests?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:4955ee4c-6203-4264-bc60-8c194adea880Post:1562ce1c-65c3-4a29-9d32-be10d4c5628c">Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests?</a>:
[QUOTE]As a serious response to your question, I don't find it rude as I'm stuck in a similar predicament. It's not that I'm worried about it, but that the Country Club where our reception is does not allow jeans, period. So I'm also stuck in how to include that in our invitations without sounding rude. It's a very fine line and I wish you the best of luck!
Posted by J_Mae84[/QUOTE]
Country Clubs are a different story. You can let guests know that there is a minimal dress code.

[Deleted User] · March 2010

Oh, Keeks. You're cracking me up with your dead cat talk today. I'm air high fiving you right now.

sucrets4 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_rude-enclose-rules-of-event-sheet-guests?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:4955ee4c-6203-4264-bc60-8c194adea880Post:0d64ac41-aeef-4c7b-b2df-519169864190">Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests?</a>:
[QUOTE]I just like to hang out here for the boobs.
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

( . )( . )

sophistryliz · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_rude-enclose-rules-of-event-sheet-guests?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:4955ee4c-6203-4264-bc60-8c194adea880Post:aeebd975-9bd4-46ce-acaf-4878cea869ab">Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests?</a>:
[QUOTE]Why would you make an SN on an internet message board if you assumed the posters wouldn't understand the meaning? Oh wait, I'm trying to apply logic to this situation. *slaps hand*
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

I just use it for everything.

Mrs.B6302007 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_rude-enclose-rules-of-event-sheet-guests?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:4955ee4c-6203-4264-bc60-8c194adea880Post:5ca76181-8eab-4318-8db4-cd5d47c14cc2">Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests? : I just use it for everything.
Posted by sophistryliz[/QUOTE]

Eep! Probably not something to admit on the boards. You're bound to get googled now.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_rude-enclose-rules-of-event-sheet-guests?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:4955ee4c-6203-4264-bc60-8c194adea880Post:bd07bcf3-5f57-44c0-a1de-ce64967af6a7">Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests? : ( . )( . )
Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]

We especially love your boobs, Sucrets.

SarahPLiz · March 2010

Sounds like you are trying really hard for a self-fulfilling prophecy, but its not working.. sorry. You aren't deceiving us at all.

In modern usage, sophism, sophist, and sophistry are derogatory terms, due to the influence of many past philosophers.

A sophism is taken as a specious argument used for deceiving someone. It might be crafted to seem logical while actually being wrong, or it might use difficult words and complicated sentences to intimidate the audience into agreeing, or it might appeal to the audience's prejudices and emotions rather than logic, i.e. raising doubts towards the one asserting, rather than his assertion. The goal of a sophism is often to make the audience believe the writer or speaker to be smarter than he or she actually is, e.g., accusing another of sophistry for using persuasion techniques.

A sophist is a user of sophisms, i.e., an insincere person trying to confuse or deceive people. Sophists will try to persuade the audience while paying little attention to whether their argument is logical and factual.

Sophistry means making heavy use of sophisms. The word can be applied to a particular text or speech riddled with sophisms.

kikibaby · March 2010

*air high five* back, cew!

B- She's not real smrt about internet safety (big surprise). Yesterday, she had her and her FI's entire names in her sig. They must be pretty boring, though, because nobody found any good dirt.

Mrs.B6302007 · March 2010

Oh, this is the where my brothers go to school chick?

kikibaby · March 2010

One and the same, I believe.

mwhitson14 · March 2010

This has been a fun read. I've had such a boring day.

sophistryliz · March 2010

My karma is about to go to hell....I'm done.

[Deleted User] · March 2010

Who is Karma? And why is she going to hell?

Blueyed228 · March 2010

If you are that worried about what the hell people are going to wear, just make it black tie. I mean really. I have been to weddings where people came in jeans and did they look stupid? Yes. Was it the end of the world? No.

As for the party crashers, just clearly state on the invitation who is invited. On your response cards put "We have reserved __ number of seats for you" or something along those lines (the invitation board can help better on the wording). If people show up who were not invited, its their problem. I wouldn't be so worried about it in the grand scheme of things. You are going to be so busy enjoying your day that I hope you wouldn't just focus on the negative stuff.

wcvsb3b5 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_rude-enclose-rules-of-event-sheet-guests?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:4955ee4c-6203-4264-bc60-8c194adea880Post:54f8a372-12ad-4d70-bb36-5cd46cad9225">Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests? : What the hell should they be teaching if they are on Spring fucking Break? Should they be standing in the middle of the street with flashcards waiting for some random kid to walk by?
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

I just got a couple of strange looks at work when I read this and chuckled out loud. Lucky for me, I wasn't on a call =)

MeaghanandMichael · March 2010

Well, black tie is pretty involved. It requires much more than just the outfits.

Blueyed228 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_rude-enclose-rules-of-event-sheet-guests?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:4955ee4c-6203-4264-bc60-8c194adea880Post:5dbbe071-8e12-42b9-870e-d5daad8a076c">Re: is it rude to enclose a "rules of the event" sheet for the guests?</a>:
[QUOTE]Well, black tie is pretty involved. It requires much more than just the outfits.
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

True, I just meant that it would be the only way to really "control"(yuck) what people are going to wear.

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