Hi everyone, I need advice...
My boyfriend and I are in love and have decided that we want to marry next October. We've been looking into wedding venues, rings, invitations, etc. but he wants to do the traditional thing- ask my father for my hand in marriage. I've been so excited about everything that I've told my grandma everything! But I haven't said anything to my parents. I've sworn my grammy to secrecy, but its killing me! My mother is very traditional and I know would be funky about me doing all this planning and not having been formally proposed to. My babe wants to save up for this "perfect" ring and the whole bit. Far be it from me to deny the man of his wishes! But how do I approach it from my family's perspective? On one hand, I know she's old school, but on the other hand, if she found out my grandmother knew, I'd have a whole other issue on my hands. Do I spill the beans??
... Love never fails