Ok so Nick was under the impression that we were going to have 4 people standing up on both sides. I was under the impression that 3 people were standing up on each side. I do not have many female friends and finding a 3rd person was hard enough, and now I have to find a 4th? I don't have that many girlfriends and feel now I am just asking people to ask because Nick wants the numbers to be even.
I told my MOH about this situation and she said "haha, good luck." WTF?!?! I know you can't really demote people in the wedding but I just might. The other day when we hung out, I gave her stuff to look at about my venue and she didn't even look at it. Then she was like when do I get to do fun stuff? At another point in time, she was like, "good luck finding another MOH" (and althogh I think it was a joke, its still extremely rude to say and the fact that she thinks she is irreplaceable is really starting to get to me).
Like I'm sorry that my wedding isn't as important to you as it means to me, but why are you being so rude?
Any ideas on what to do about the MOH and about the number issue (the fact that I don't have more people to ask)