First let me say three things, A) sorry this is so long.
i'm not sure this is the right board for this but I think you girls will help me best and C) Thank you for listening to me rant, if anyone lives in the ATL please feel free to slap me!
So, he finally popped the question on 4/7, after 6 years of dating. The ring is a family heirloom, it has lots of history behind it. I love it for all it represents. Needs to be sized, doesnt fit
Well.. I will admit, I have LIVED on this board for a week, reading everything, all the different boards and have just fallen into the excitement of planning our wedding. This will be the second for both of us, so were not planning on anything real upscale or gigantic. But... here's the issue. No money... were not poor.. live a very happy life normally, things get tight at times. But overall were ok.
Last night we talked for the first time about a wedding and what we would want. As far as the vision for the wedding goes luckily we are not on opposite sides of the fence, we pretty much want the same things, except he would like to spend more money on the honeymoon then I would (at a cost to the wedding) so I would rather split it up 50/50 ish and have somewhat of the wedding I never had. Determination was we have to wait, cant make any decisions for at least a year.
Yes I'm pouting, and yes I'm even pissed in some ways and I'm completely in a funk.
Ok, so light me up, straighten me out, HELP!
**edited after a nice knottie msg'd me to google my screen name and well bang.. every post is on full view, some boards are not like that, guess this one is. I will be more careful in the future** Thank you! **took out anything that could get me in trouble :P **