My MOH's husband is going on a deployment next year. They have set it for May but have yet (refuse) to reveal the actual date. My MOH knows I would never replace her, and she is holding out on purchasing her dress for as long as possible. Would it look silly if she wore a simple dress instead of the BM dress like the other girls? Personally, I don't care... but I can see my mom saying something nasty about it. Considering she is already harping that I will need to replace her.