My husband and I are three weeks newly married. Wedding went off without a hitch from church ceremony to luau reception for 90 done all by my family. It was really hard work from which I think we all need another vacation. I am in the process of writing thank you cards for gifts to those who joined us in the celebration, now. Weird problem here is that we did not receive anything from any of my husband's family. Of his 32 members including siblings, spouses, nieces, nephews, grandkids, one in-law not even invited, and two friends that attended our destination wedding, not one gave him or us a gift of any kind much less a card. It was so weird. Almost embarrassing, really. They all had a great time and expressed much appreciation for us getting married in such a beautiful setting. Granted, they may have thought that their gifts were their presence in joining us, but to not even receive a card from any of them? They all just came for the party. And, we've received numerous gifts from a good deal of folks who didn't even attend. I am trying so hard to not seem prissy, but I don't know what to think or how to react aside from dumbfoundment. Am I obligated to send any of them thank you cards? My husband has already passed along the website info to all of them for accessing our wedding photos and they've spoken loads about the wedding fun they all had. Thoughts, comments anyone?