One of my bridesmaids has a 4 month old baby. She will be a year old by the time of the wedding. BM already knows I am not inviting kids. She just replied to my online save the date email with this:
Hi! So I will be bringing someone with me, just not sure yet so it will be BM and guest . Also, I will have Baby with me, I know you dont want kids there but.... Whoever I have with me can be with her until the ceremony is over, things may change but as for now thats how it will have to be. I'll make sure she isnt the kid that ruins your wedding!!! haha!
What am I supposed to say?! I cannot tell my family no kids and allow hers to come! BM is a single mom with dad not in the picture, and not financially well off. I feel sooo bad but don't know what to do! Help!