Hi,
I am having a really hard time choosing bridesmaids. I made the EPIC mistake of calling all of my girldfriends when I got engaged and mentioning the fact that I want them to be bridesmaids. I have 9 friends who mean a great deal to me and I don't know how to pare down the list while not hurting their feelings.
Reality started to set in today and I now realize that I'm having a small wedding of only 100 people, and that I can't afford numerous bouquets, transportation for all the bridesmaids and groomsmen, etc because we are working with a tight budget.
My fiance says to have whoever I want in the bridal party and to just have fun- but I can't stop thinking that the bridesmaid to guest ratio would be too high with 9 maids and 100 guests!
It'd be great to have advice on:
1) Should I have 9 bridesmaids for a wedding of 100 people?
2) If not, how do I renig my offer without hurting feelings?
3) How can I utlize these close friends during the wedding so that they still feel more valuable than a regular guest? We are having a Catholic mass...
I know that I made a huge mistake by asking without thinking! Please help.