Do you think its unrealistic? I am on a tight budget. We will have around 120 guests ...to save money I plan on making my own wedding cupcakes (rather than with some help from family of course) The week before my wedding I plan to just bust them out, very simple cupcakes (white cake with light blue frosting and an edible white seashell on each which I found online, and I bought a cupcake tree). Some people have looked at me like I'm crazy when I told them but I don't think its that big of a deal ....has anyone else done this?