I do not want to invite my step sister and her husband. When we made the guest list months ago, I didnt want to invite them then, but I figured I would because its the nice thing to do. Since then, she has shunned by dad, told my step mom she couldnt come to the hospital to see her first and only granddaugter if her husband (my dad) was with her. She told her my dad wasnt invited to the baptism, and told my step mom she needed to choose between her or my dad. Because of this, my step mom has seen her granddaughter twice in 4 months. I really hate this girl, and after what she did to my dad for no real reason, he has always been good to her and treated her like his own daughter, i want nothing else to do with her.I never liked her but was always nice. Ive told my dad Im done with her and to not even bring her around me anyone, she was wrong for doing what she did to him and I think that is very mean considering all he has done for her. I dont care what he says, I know his feelings were a little bit hurt.
OH! She also sent me a thank you card from her baby shower (prior to the situation with my dad) and in the thank you card she told me thanks, and by the way I cant come to your engagement party. Even after Ive been to a million of her parties where I had to buy her some expensive gift. Who puts that in a thank you card? Last week we took HER mom out for her birthday to a spa, not only did she not come, but she asked my sister (shes the only one who will talk to her) to not tell her mom we invited her so we didnt make her look bad.
I sent her a STD....then the thing with dad happened. I know I SHOULD send an invite because I sent the STD...but really, do I HAVE to? I already know she wont come, the wedding is OOT, and Id rather use the invite for people we actually want to there. Do you have to follow ettiqutte all the time? Are there ever exceptions?
My dad paid for my dress and the ceremony (at a hotel). His finances are seperate from my step mothers. Should I ask him if he would be mad if I dont invite her or take it upon myself to remove her from the list?