Ok, so a couple weeks ago I decided to have a grooms cake as a surprise to FI. I emailed my FMIL asking her if she could get my a picture of FI's 1968 Camaro that he had in high school. It was his baby, he worked on it every minute he could. So when she emailed me the picture she said she would help out with it.
So I met with a couple of bakeries, and found one I really liked. I had the tasting and decided on flavors. He insisted on having a chocolate teir on our wedding cake because he said he loves chocolate cake.
So this past weekend FMIL goes on and on to me about how he hates chocolate cake and that it needs to be yellow cake.
So in passing I ask him if he's sure about chocolate cake on our weddinc cake because his mother told me he hates it. He stares at my like I'm crazy, and then goes on to say that she thinks he hates chocolate cake, she always makes assumptions.
So I don't know what to do...I'm planning on having the cake chocolate, but I know she will give me a hard time about helping out if that's the case. I emailed her and told her I made my final decision for the cake, and that if she would like to help out that would be great, if not I totally understand. I know she's going to take it the wrong way, and probably go off to FI about how I'm pushing her away...