I need ideas for planning a short, informal, and preferably non-traditional ceremony that will still be "enough" for our approximately 200 guests (many of who will be traveling from out of town). Both my fiance and I want a casual wedding -- we're mainly focused on having friends/family together, but neither one of us are interested in traditions like walking down the aisle, having a long ceremony with readings, etc. We would be content with a private -- just us and parents/siblings -- wedding in front of a judge followed immediately by a big afternoon barbecue/picnic reception, but are concerned that people won't travel across the country if they aren't at the actual ceremony, and really want our friends to be there. Does anyone have thoughts about how to conduct a wedding ceremony that is short, but not so short as to be weird? How long should it be?