What should I do? I hate catered food and I love my aunt's food who often cooks for our family gatherings, but not at the capacity of two large families and the turn out I am expecting for my wedding! So with that said... How realistic is having her cook at least my 3 must haves (macaroni and cheese, spaghetti, & grilled chicken) for at least 350 ppl and still be apart of my big day, because she is still my favorite auntie!!!!