So, we're not engaged YET...but we're shopping around. At first my bf was getting irritated with me because I'd see a ring online that I liked and I'd email it to him or I'd cut out pics out of magazines. He said that if I keep bringing up the ring and talk about getting engaged..when he finally does propose it won't be as much as a suprise. Well...now HE is getting irritating to me lol! I understand that he just wants the ring to be perfect and he wants me to love it-but he's always emailing me picures of diamonds and rings and the stats. By now he should know what I want! He'll find a ring online, show me and I'll fall in love with it but he says he's not ready to buy anything yet. Why show me something if you aren't ready to buy it yet!!!??? Its torture and so frustrating. How do I nicely tell him to leave me out of the process from now on?! And yes, I know the ring is not important but it actually is to him...