So, my MoH contacted me the other day to tell me that she thought I was a B*tch for not inviting her brother (and his girlfriend) to the wedding. She even offered to buy a bigger better gift for us if we invited them! When i asked her why she would even ask me that she said "well, you've known him for a long time and you probably know him better than your fiance". I havent seen this kid in probably 11 years and had nothing to do with him before then other than seeing him occasionally when I was over at her place. Don't think I ever even really talked to him....
She is now really angry with me and not speaking to me for (1) not inviting him and (2) questioning her on why she would even ask.
Frustrated as hell and wondering how to handle this with her - since she IS my MoH.
This is not the first time she's done something worthy of me "firing her" either... she 1. ruined my upcoming shower surprise by telling me all the secrets and games my Aunt (the hostess) planned; 2. refuses to throw a "bachelorette" because she doesn't think I need one; 3. refuses to co-host a buck & doe because she doesn't want to spend the time or money planning it; 4. didn't help with invitations when I asked her to do simple tasks multiple times; 5. thinks the theme, colours and entire event I've planned for my wedding is "kinda stupid".
Sory - just ranting cuz I'm starting to (Yes, just starting to) get fed up with it....