We are having a very fancy wedding, not black tie, but close to it. We're having "black tie optional" but not required- still very fancy. My fiance does not want to wear a tuxedo- he wants to wear a suit. I know for a fact that my father, his father and my brother-in-law will all be in tuxedos. I jsut feel like it's his wedding, he should be in a tux- he should not be outdressed by the father of the bride, his father and his brother-in-law. Am I wrong? It is probably not my place since the tuxes are his thing but I think if most men, especially the key players, are wearing tuxedos, he willl look a bit out of place.
What;'s the best way to approach this or do I just not say anything at this point? i know people will notice and maybe not comment to him about it- but they will comment to me... especially my family who is expecting him to be in a tux.