I am trying very hard to cut down my guest list so that we can afford to invite people to a nice wedding. Currently, I am running in to an ethical dilemma. I have a lot of cousins... I mean A LOT of cousins (parents are divorced and remarried)! Almost 50 people on the guest list are JUST cousins and their spouses or significant others (the majority being my family as it is much larger than my fiance's). Most of these people I don't see or speak to more than once a year. Sure, some I'm close to, but I'm not "like sisters" with the majority. There are friends I have that I am closer to and are more like family to me. So my question is: is it OK to invite SOME cousins and not others?