Am getting married in July and both my sisters will be flying down for the wedding. Both my sisters are my matron of honor and both are pregnant. My problem is that my mother is planning to throw a baby shower for both of them the day before or the morning of my wedding. I have spoken to my mother about how busy this time will be and she agrees, but I sort of feel a little bit selfish asking my mother not to have a baby showerfor my sisters and then i feel like this is my special time...they both had their wedding where they were the main focus... My family members are calling me and telling me we should have a small baby shower for my sisters... Am i being selfish ??? I tend to stress and my fiance and I feel that to add more things to our plates would be to much. (I might add that this is a mostly do ourselves wedding) Please if you have any suggestions that might help, thank you :]