It's one of my guilty pleasures to watch RHONJ, but it's even more of a guilty pleasure to read one writer's recaps of the episodes. The writer, Andrea Seigel, is hilarious and sarcastic and I literally laugh out loud while I'm reading which very few things on the internet cause me to do.
If you want to read her recaps, I suggest starting with the first one (posted on 5/17... it's toward the bottom of the page) and go up from there. She usually posts them the day after the episodes air, so be sure to read any future ones when the episodes are still pretty fresh in your mind.
The recaps can be found here (enjoy!):
http://nymag.com/author/andrea%20seigel