Through out our pre-marital counseling I felt that my pastor was a little over the top and a touch sexist. (i.e. telling me I am to submit to my husband, make sure he is always happy, put him above myself, and give him sex whenever otherwise he might cheat just to name a few things he said to me).
We'll during one of our counselling sessions we had to bring up our hopes, dreams & fears. One of my dreams was to one day move out of our little town, even just for a little while to experience something different. This was by no means at the top of my list, and something that if we didn't do I wouldn't be heartbroken. I explained this to them.
Well then FI fear was to move away from our town (I already knew this but we were being open & honest). So we talked about it with the pastor and I didn't think it was a big deal. We even came up with a compromise of traveling more when I'm done with school so I can see places outside of MI.
We'll during his "challenge" to us he brought up that I should not pressure my husband to move and do things that would make him feel uncomfortable. He said this in front of all of our family, friends & co-works who most don't even know that I like the idea of moving one day, but this will most likely never happen (again, something I'm good with).
We got asked a ton of times about our possible plans to move, where to, when we were thinking of doing this. To the point where hubbys boss asked him on his 1st day back to work about wanting to move! I just could not believe he brought that up at our wedding!!