Okay, to start, I've been lurking enough to know that including registry information with the invitation is a big no-no.
Last weekend, we were with some out-of-town friends and ended up talking about how the wedding planning was going. They're all invited, and they were asking tons of questions. They brought up where we were registered, and informed us that we HAVE to include something about where we are registered so that they will know where to go. They insisted that they wouldn't go online to look up where we are registered. Apparently verbally telling them isn't good enough either since they will probably forget between now and September.
Now I'm stuck. I wasn't going to include registry information at all, but now I'm feeling like I should include registry cards ONLY in the invites of these people. Most of the rest of the guest list is immediate family or coworkers of parents, so word-of-mouth would be very easy. However, we hardly see this one group of friends so word-of-mouth would be very difficult and apparently searching online is also too difficult.
Should I cave in and give them the rude little card that says where we are registered, or let them figure it out on their own like everyone else?
Thanks ladies :-)