my fiance & I got engaged at a beautiful historic estate in 'upstate' New York. We discovered shortly after they allow weddings (we could literally do ceremony, photos and reception all in one place!) and probably has the worlds cheapest site rental fees ever, but this also means the cost of rentals goes way up because you have to get EVERYTHING. Between fears of those rising costs and how to pay for it, and risking the weather- as this place has NO indoor options- Im womdering if its worth it to do it where we dreamed or try and find a local venue for the reception?