OK my sis (MOH) is getting on my nerves about my bell ringer and FG dresses not being the same. My BR (her daughter and my neice) has one type of dress and my FG (my other neice) has another and she all pissed about it. I don't get it. First, I originally did not want a bell ringer but agreed so that Muff (what I call my neice) has a role in the wedding. My other lil neice I only get to see every couple of years, and I wanted her in this role.My sis is also upset about the headbands I want them to wear with the dresses????????? REALLY!!!!! I told her I would buy the dang things myself if that was the problem, but that's not it she simply does not want her to wear one. WWYD?