I've just gotten into this planning and getting ideas started for my big day. Right now I'm just trying to get the very basic ideas going. I'm not really sure if I should have alcohol at my wedding or at the reception. Most of my family is very religious, and against alcohol, but my fiance' and I are more contemporary and I'm sure our friends would like to be able to have a couple of drinks, but I don't want to offend my family by having it. I don't know what to do in order to keep everyone happy.