We have been having a lot of issues with our wedding party. On of our girl ushers is refusing to get fitted until it fits into her schedule. Everyone else in the wedding party for girls got fitted 2 weeks ago, and she doesn't want to follow my plan. Another issue with her is that she has been bad mouthing me behind my back about untrue things to a groomsmen and a bridesmaid. She still has not confronted me about anything she is upset with me about. I'm really not sure what to do. She's young and a little immature. She is also holding a little grudge against me because my fiance and I had only been dating a year before we got engaged... she has been dating her bf for 2 1/2 years and is still not engaged. Her boyfriend and my fiances really good friend from like first grade...
I'm really unsure what to do.... Do I keep her? Or kick her out?? This is the 2nd time in a few months she has completely stressed me out and/or tried to get other people in our wedding party against me.
How do I go about keeping her in the wedding? Or kciking her out? politely...