I am still good friends with my ex bf who I was with for 4 years, and was like a stepdad to my 12 yr old DD. He and his gf moved to Alaska last year, and decided a few months ago to move back. About a month ago he told me that they would be here for the wedding, Aug 11th. I was really happy they would be able to make it, mostly for my DD who hasn't seen them in a year and was really excited they were coming.
Well, they are driving through Canada right now, and his gf just posted on Facebook that they were going to spend one night here, this Saturday, and then drive down to Fresno to visit his grandparents until the 15th. My dd goes back to her dad's house in another state right after the wedding, so that means she won't get to see them until Xmas now. She is really upset, and so am I. We only were able to invite 35 people, and there were many people I wanted to invite and couldn't. Nothing can be done now. I just needed to vent because this really sucks.