I've gotten almost all my RSVP's back and there was only one that I did not want to see a NO on and guess what, I just got it
One of my very dear friends from Florida, which happens to be the main reason I am with my FI cannot make it and I'm devestated. Of everyone I invited, she is the only one that I felt must be there no matter what. But I don't want to sound selfish either, I know things come up in people's lives and I can't be mad at her, but just very disappointed