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BP Gifts

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If 2 people in the BP are married, is it OK to get them a shared gift rather than 2 individual ones?  For example, my sister is my MOH and her husband is one of J's groomsmen.  I'm starting to think about what to get everyone and since they have a lot of shared interests I was wondering if I could get 1 gift for the both of them.
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  • Beachy730Beachy730 member
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    I think that would be good as long as it's something they both like. 
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bp-gifts?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:16dad1c0-dce9-45e8-9973-ec2273646ed5Post:d1a8e86e-bbe6-4700-a1f3-8ed2d0925061">Re: BP Gifts</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think that would be good as long as it's something they both like. 
    Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]

    <div>Oh definitely!  I might still get them individual gifts, but have both gifts be something they can enjoy together.  Just wanted to make sure I wasn't breaking an etiquette rules if I did get them a shared gift.</div>
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  • Beachy730Beachy730 member
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    i've never heard of it being a rule, but I definitely didn't hear a lot of them from here.  I think it would be awesome if H and I were in a wedding together and they just gave us a bigger gift card to somewhere, or something we could both use.

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    Sure! But if you are giving your girls (or everyone) gifts together and they're going to compare, I'd probably make sure their one gift is a bit bigger/more than the individual gifts. Like, I'd get them a $50 gift if you're spending $25 on everyone else. Give or take. 
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  • shortee426shortee426 member
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    Yup...that's what I do.  Double the budget if it's a shared gift.  Thanks for the input ladies!
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