My reception is at sailing club where I've just hired the venue but will be getting catering, decorations etc seperately. My question is how I can pull my reception together the way I want it without getting a wedding planer? I don't want to pay someone to do the designing for me, I want to do it myself, but of course, I can't deck the whole place out myself the day of my wedding so how do I DIY without actually being there setting everything up myself the day of my wedding? My mum is panicking I want to do too much DIY stuff, but this is the day to personalise right?