Okay ladies. I'm in a predicament. Help(: I know yall have my back on this I need advice.

lindseyandzach2014 · September 2012

I am getting married April 12, 2014.

Being excited and starting my planning process already, I kinda told the girls that I want in my wedding that I want them to be my bridesmaids.

Well.. a few problems.

1- My fiance DOES NOT want one of them in the wedding because he really doesn't like her and she hasn't been the best friend to me.

2- I have like 9 people picked out and he has 7 or 8.

3- I HATE hurting people's feelings.

Soooo ladies.. what should I do about this? I am a nice person and don't wanna hurt anyones feelings, but don't want my fiance upset or anyone else.

I know someone's probably going to get upset. But what do yall suggest I do?

SlothGoals · September 2012

1. He doesn't get a say in who stands up with you and vice versa. Talk to your FI and let him know that this girl is important enough to you that you would like her to stand up with you on your wedding day.

2. Uneven sides are totally ok! My FI and I will most likely have uneven sides.

3. It won't just be hurting someone's feelings; it will likely end the friendship, unfortunately.

I also think that you should slow your roll on planning and enjoy your engagement.

darren429 · September 2012

I know it is kind of hard! May b u and your soon to be husband and your friend need to sit down and talk about it! Maybe you can come to some type of agreement!

lindseyandzach2014 · October 2012

Thank you guys.

I decided to have her in my wedding.

We both are going to have 9 people on each side.

I DO wish I could have waited longer on asking the girls, and it wasn't officially asking, just over like a text after I got engaged and out of excitement.

SlothGoals · October 2012

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[QUOTE]Thank you guys. I decided to have her in my wedding. We both are going to have 9 people on each side. I DO wish I could have waited longer on asking the girls, and it wasn't officially asking, just over like a text after I got engaged and out of excitement.
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I'm glad that you and your FI worked it out, and you are going to have the wedding party that you want <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />.

lindseyandzach2014 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_april-2014-weddings_okay-ladies-im-in-a-predicament-help-i-know-yall-have-my-back-on-this-i-need-advice?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:61a7a4c2-b16b-4dc9-93ee-b04e4cdbdcd6Discussion:4429ffcb-2e91-466c-b394-972ef96b37a9Post:a6431aa4-41f3-4281-a08a-fe484f18f4b2">Re: Okay ladies. I'm in a predicament. Help(: I know yall have my back on this I need advice.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Okay ladies. I'm in a predicament. Help(: I know yall have my back on this I need advice. : I'm glad that you and your FI worked it out, and you are going to have the wedding party that you want .
Posted by kristbot[/QUOTE]
Thanks girl! :)

angellqt143 · October 2012

I dont like my bestfriend husband. But i love her and I was in her wedding and she is in mine. My fiance has no say in my side and I have no say in his side. Your fiance should understand how close she is to you.

Un even sides is not a big deal a ton of ppl do it.

Okay ladies. I'm in a predicament. Help(: I know yall have my back on this I need advice.

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