On the day of the wedding, we will be taking our pix before the ceremony. We've said that since day 1. So, Babe was on the phone with his new BM {his brother can't make it to town} this morning. The BM wants to know what time he needs to be there because he "has a lot going on that day." Ok, you've been knowing about "that day" for a LONG time now! So, nothing should be going on "that day" other than you being a BM! Anywho, I tell Babe that I want to start taking pix at 1pm. Take pix from 1pm-4pm. That way, we can chill from 4pm-5pm, before the ceremony. {Ceremony starts at 5pm.} Babe thinks 1pm is too early. BUT, we're not taking pix on location. We will be taking pix at different places in downtown Houston, so I think 3 hrs is a good amount of time.
Then BM says it's rude because his "date" will have to drive herself there instead of him picking her up. 1st of all, who the HELL is this uninvited date? Why didn't you RSVP for her? What is her name so she can have a seat?! He says, "We'll just call her X for now." REALLY?! Well, X gone be looking stupid. AND when I said to bring her with him early, he asks who is she going to talk to? She's not going to know anybody. I said, "It'll be the same if we took pix between the ceremony and the reception. She STILL wouldn't know anybody!"
So, am I tripping? Is 3 hrs too long? Time really flies when taking pix! Should just Babe and I take pix from 1pm-2pm and then everybody else from 2pm-4pm? BUT I thought that the MOH and BM are supposed to be by your side the whole day? Like, wtf?! I really don't know why I'm so irritated at this time, but I really am! At this point, I wouldn't mind calling everything off. I really don't have time for this ish! I have too many other things stressing me out at the time to get to the end of this wedding planning crap and let it start stressing me out, too!