First off, Hello to everyone! I am new here and this is my first real post. I never planned on actually posting but I am so upset and just need to vent.
My FMIL is trying to ruin my wedding. She will stop at nothing. For whatever reason she does not want her son to get married. He is 30 years old and this is going to be his first marriage. She should be happy but she isn't. Her level of craziness just went up yesterday. She drove by our house when he was at work and then drove to his job and told him I had "people" at the house. Pretty much implying that I was with another guy. Obviously, my future husband knew this was untrue. I also found it really creepy since it was earlier in the morning and I was asleep at the time. I found out she doest this a lot. Drives by the house to see who is around. Then later that night she threw the biggest fit and demanded that I uninvite my guests so more of her family could be at the wedding.
We are having a small wedding. No more than 22 people. We each are invited 11 people. Most of my family has passed away so I invtied my best friend's family considering I have known them since I was 8 years old and they are all I have left besides my sister and my daughter. Apparently my FMIL does not like this and then said "the wedding is all about her.. family only.. if they aren't related to her they shouldn't even be there" When she knows I have no living relatives. This is all I have. It really upset me because I miss my family enough without her reminding that my second family isn't "real family". She then called up all of my FI family and said terrible things about me and said I was the reason why distant relatives couldn't be there. She has no say in who is there anyway. She is not paying for anything. Anytime anyone even brings up the wedding she gets angry.
She has always been crazy but us getting married is pushing it overboard and I just can not take it. I am so close to not inviting her to the wedding. My FI is standing up for me and is not speaking to his mother right now because of this but I know he really wants her there deep down. I just don't know how to make her stop.
Any other mother in law horror stories out there? or am I the only one?
I just needed to vent so thanks to whoever read this.