So maybe I'm over-thinking this, but, a few logistic questions:
1). When your dress came in from your bridal shop, did you just go try it on, pick it up and take to Becky? I am going this weekend to the shop to finalize veil selections, etc, but my appointment isn't withvBecky for another 3 weeks.
2). If you did bridals, assuming all alterations were done prior to your bridals? Afterwards, did you take it back to her, or stash it somewhere so the FI doesn't see it?
Sorry for the crazy questions!!