Timing is everything! Grrr.,...

desertsun · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:4ef836e0-370c-437f-ad3f-b76eed568dc8">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]I think my response of "take a hike" is fully warranted given the random OP came to the board and told a reg: : In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... :
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

<div>I don't want to play Captain Save A Newb. There is no doubt that OP was out of line. </div><div>
</div><div>I also don't want to censor anyone. I really really really do not like when others try to tell me how/what to post.</div><div>
</div><div>But I do think these kinds of threads give substance to accusations of cliqueyness or being mean to newbies. </div><div>
</div><div>Maybe i'm just not around enough any more. I know I have definitely suggested posters leave the board before. So I don't want to be the pot or the kettle here, or have a stick surgically removed from tender parts of my anatomy.

It just seemed like things really escalated in this thread and got to a place that made me a bit uncomfortable, and so I spoke up. </div><div>
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AudgiePodge · August 2012

Hey Tarra and Liv

Desert does have a lovey way with words. I want to be like her when I grow up.

SKP82 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:4db99e2a-0434-4bd7-86b7-c3cf02237b32">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]SKP has been warned once before about posting other peoples info from Facebook on here. At least she held off on posting their photos from FB in this thread. /eyeroll I think Liv's assumption was pretty spot on.
Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]

Thanks for bringing something that happened FOREVER ago to everyone else's attention.

/eyeroll

desertsun · August 2012

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[QUOTE]Hey Tarra and Liv <3 Desert does have a lovey way with words. I want to be like her when I grow up.
Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Thanks, friend. I wish I had your way with words when it comes to being funny. You're definitely one of the most hilarious people I know. :) How have you been? </div><div>
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AudgiePodge · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:d7b41529-588e-4619-a503-8dc22c2101c8">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : Thanks for bringing something that happened FOREVER ago to everyone else's attention. /eyeroll
Posted by SKP82[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Right, because it absolutely had no relevence to this thread. Grow up.</div><div>
</div><div>I should have also mentioned that I warned you'd get banned if you did it again, but since I am no longer mod, I didn't think it was relevant. </div><div>
</div><div>You're welcome.</div>

desertsun · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:c6c74883-0e24-4153-9edb-b90c74d7952e">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : I hope to never truly grow up. H said the other day that he loves it when I look at the world like it is full of possiblity and wonder.
Posted by hellotarra[/QUOTE]

<div>I definitely still believe in trying to appreciate the world around us and not losing our sense of wonder!</div><div>
</div><div>But I am also a rather practical and serious sort of person.</div><div>
</div><div>I think there's a time and a place for wonder, and a time and a place for realism. KWIM?</div><div>
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AudgiePodge · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:d657501b-5629-4c25-8b4f-22b361ed199c">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : Thanks, friend. I wish I had your way with words when it comes to being funny. You're definitely one of the most hilarious people I know. :) How have you been?
Posted by desertsun[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh, you!</div><div>
</div><div>I've been well. DD starts kindergarten next monday. I can't believe it. How are you and your little one doing?</div>

SKP82 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:48badecf-6b66-4162-8a29-bc0b0b069f71">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : Right, because it absolutely had no relevence to this thread. Grow up. I should have also mentioned that I warned you'd get banned if you did it again, but since I am no longer mod, I didn't think it was relevant. You're welcome.
Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]

The only thing I said about the girl was that her relationship wasn't "FB official" and I apparently was wrong about that. Elle cleared that up for me.

I love how you're making me the bad guy here...

Liv, if what I said was bannable, by all means, go ahead and make me the example.

desertsun · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:0835854e-4b57-4d5d-a7b7-cca98608b72c">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : Oh, you! I've been well. DD starts kindergarten next monday. I can't believe it. How are you and your little one doing?
Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>That shoud be an adventure! Is she excited?</div><div>
</div><div>My lttle man had a truly massive blow out all over my bed while nursing at about 6 am. It's a good thing he's so damn cute. :)</div><div>
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AudgiePodge · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:776ab564-26cc-4a34-8864-53a804770980">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : That shoud be an adventure! Is she excited? My lttle man had a truly massive blow out all over my bed while nursing at about 6 am. It's a good thing he's so damn cute. :)
Posted by desertsun[/QUOTE]

<div>Being cute definitely helps</div>

thejucheidea · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:7bbc6d21-003c-44e0-827c-46822642965f">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]SKP, you were one of several who looked up personal Facebook information.
Posted by LivLeighton[/QUOTE]

Speaking of personal Facebook information, while it is off-topic (and I'm fully aware that this is probably not the place, but it continues to bug me), I kinda wish there had been this sort of uproar when screencaps of my personal, privacy-protected Facebook posts with my friends' full names had been posted :|.

jorja86 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:74180192-33f1-4071-8df3-2c91509f61c6">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : Speaking of personal Facebook information, while it is off-topic (and I'm fully aware that this is probably not the place, but it continues to bug me), I kinda wish there had been this sort of uproar when screencaps of my personal, privacy-protected Facebook posts with my friends' full names had been posted :|.
Posted by ahstillwell[/QUOTE]

<div>There was an uproar...on facebook, where it happened. What's Liv supposed to do about something that happened somewhere other than this board?</div>

thejucheidea · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:0b1480dc-2223-4a04-aa08-bf8e6f154991">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : There was an uproar...on facebook, where it happened. What's Liv supposed to do about something that happened somewhere other than this board?
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]

afaik, we don't even have a moderator there, but I'm talking about how some people thought it was totally okay and completely justified to post private information like that. Not cool anywhere.

jorja86 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:3f7cbbb8-9f2d-49ae-933f-604648cfb8f8">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : afaik, we don't even have a moderator there, but I'm talking about how some people thought it was totally okay and completely justified to post private information like that. Not cool anywhere.
Posted by ahstillwell[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I agree that it was not okay, but I think it's kind of random to bring it up here, like something could have been done about it on the board. I also think that there were definitely people at the time who agreed with you, and mentioned that it sucked.

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thejucheidea · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:3540bb72-dc1b-43ea-bf80-c7aae689cc5f">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : I agree that it was not okay, but I think it's kind of random to bring it up here, like something could have been done about it on the board. I also think that there were definitely people at the time who agreed with you, and mentioned that it sucked.
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]

Which is why I said that I know this isn't the place, but it's just something that's been bothering me since it happened. I just needed to get if off of my chest, especially in light of what happened here.

Elle1036 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_timing-is-everything-grrr?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:be9953e3-60cd-49cc-af2a-df48dd21ae98Post:fb0a3bee-e867-418d-9ee5-afdb218f7224">Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Timing is everything! Grrr.,... : Which is why I said that I know this isn't the place, but it's just something that's been bothering me since it happened. I just needed to get if off of my chest, especially in light of what happened here.
Posted by ahstillwell[/QUOTE]

I thinkt the contents of that screencap are probably still really bothering Buggle, but she's not bringing it up.

Can we please just let bygones be bygones?

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