My bridesmaids offered to throw me a wedding shower. But, one of my friends (Jane) who had to bow out of the wedding party as a bridesmaid offered to organize and send out the invitations. So I sent her the invitation list about three weeks ago. The other day one of my bridesmaids called me to tell me that the invitations still aren't sent out and Jane is using February 13 as her deadline to mail them! I'm freaking out a little because the norm is to send them out at least four weeks ahead of time. My bridesmaid told me that she's thinking about just calling Jane and telling her that she'll send them out herself, but at the same time she doesn't want to step on any toes. What to do? I feel like three weeks isn't long enough. And she has a tendency to be pretty last minute on things. Should I just tell my bridesmaid that she should go ahead an send them out herself? I usually like to take care of things myself, so this is making me really nervous.