I only wanted one bridal shower, and now im slated to have 3. My moh and wedding planner have convinced me that I should have one big one, as I have a very large wedding party and my girls will not be able to make it to all three. I am also more comfortable with this idea because I hate having to do stuff like this.
Both my mil and smil feel the need to throw me a shower for each corresponding families. They don't get along with each other. I feel like I am being put in the middle of their fight and that they are being rude by not wanting to include my family or friends in either shower. My SMIL has facebooked me and has brought the idea of my fiancés fathers side of the family only shower up again. how do I tell her how I feel without hurting her feelings, and explaining that I only want one shower??