I'm looking for some suggestions for where to shop for groom's attire. My fiance and I want to avoid the prom look tuxedo with a vest and tie that match the bridesmaids dresses in some shiny fabirc, etc. We're hoping for nice, subtle patterns. My fiance wants a suit with wider lapels and a slightly longer jacket than standard, not quite a tux though. We're not finding what we want at the chain stores like Men's Warehouse. Any ideas?