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invitation help! send to spouse of attendent?

ehatfield07ehatfield07
in Wedding Invitations & Paper
Obviously we know our attendents will be coming to our wedding. Do we need to send an invitation to their spouse, like my cousin's husband, even if we know that he/she will be attending also? If we should send an invite, how should it be addressed - to the married couple or just the spouse that is not in the bridal party?
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  • janedoe1113ajanedoe1113a member
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    I sent an invitation to every member of my bridal party and expected to receive their RSVP cards back.
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  • MyNameIsNotMyNameIsNot member
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    Uh, you send invitations to the WP too.  

    Just because you know they are going to be there doesn't mean they aren't invited.  
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  • amagwireamagwire
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    Agreed. You need to send invitations to your entire bridal party.  There are obviously guests you know are coming like, parents, etc. but all guests require an invite.
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  • TurtlesAllTheWayDownTurtlesAllTheWayDown member
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    Address it to both of them.

    Do you need a meal selection? That's one instance where you need a RSVP from everyone, including your MOH and your parents.
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  • lyndausvilyndausvi mod
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    did you not like our responses on the reception board??






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
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  • squirrlysquirrly member
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    Yes, you should send an invitation to your attendants including their spouse/SO/date.
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