So my maid of honor and I have ben friends for two years now and up until feb we did everything together. She got engaged in feb and since then its been impossible to get a hold of her. My cousin is one of my bridesmaids and I have been spending all my time with her. I really think I should have asked her to be my maid of honor. Do you think its inappropriate to tell my original maid of honor that I still want her on the wedding but bc I know she is busy I would like to have my cousin as the maid of honor plus she its the one throwing my bridal shower and my bachelorette party?