Im new to this board, although I have been planning for about a year. Our wedding is going to be September 4, 2011. My fiance is currently in the Coast Guard reserves, but has been activated with the oil spill once already(he was there May-July and will be going back October-December) and we are considering going active after the wedding. Also my brother is currently stationed in Kuwait. Brides on other boards dont always seem to understand what its like trying to plan without your fiance around so I decided to head over here.